Avoidant
How to Love (or Leave) a Dismissive Partner
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Joe Farinacci
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Jeb Kinnison
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Jeb Kinnison's previous book on finding a good partner by understanding attachment types (Bad Boyfriends: Using Attachment Theory to Avoid Mr. (or Ms.) Wrong and Make You a Better Partner) brought lots of people to JebKinnison.com, where the most asked-about topic was how to deal with avoidant lovers and spouses. There are many now in troubled marriages who are looking for help, as well as people already invested in a relationship short of marriage who'd like help deciding if they should stick with it.
People in relationships with avoidants struggle with their lack of responsiveness and inability to tolerate real intimacy. Relationships between an avoidant and a partner of another attachment type are the largest group of unhappy relationships, and people who love their partners and who may have started families and had children with an avoidant will work very hard to try to make their relationships work better, out of love for their partner and children as well as their own happiness. The avoidants in these relationships are more than likely unhappy with the situation as well - retreating into their shells and feeling harassed for being asked to respond with positive feeling when they have little to give.
The other reason why so many people are looking for help on this topic is that it is an almost impossible problem. Couples counsellors rarely have the time or knowledge to work with an avoidant and will often advise the spouse to give up on a dismissive, especially, whose lack of responsiveness looks like cruelty or contempt (and sometimes it is).
Yet there is some hope - though it may take years and require educating the avoidant on the patterns of good couples communication; if both partners want to change their patterns toward more secure and satisfying models, it can be done.
©2014 Jeb Kinnison (P)2015 Jeb Kinnison
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Gesamt5 out of 5 stars
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- Canu
- 06.07.2019
learned so much about myself and others
this book could really help you to love someone who seems emotionally unavailable or to learn more about your own attachment style
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Gesamt5 out of 5 stars
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- E7EVEN
- 26.03.2016
wow
just the right book at the right time for me. another point of view on what often is just considered narcissitic people (most often said to be the male part of a relationship) vs needy people (mist often... the female...). in this book this myth is kind of clarified, and that it's rather a relationship where one of the members is an dismissive avoidant and the other (e.g.) an anxious preoccupied. and this is in my opinion a rather realistic pov.
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- Vida Ck
- 31.12.2018
A very good book with a very annoying voice
The content is very good and I am highly interested in the topics of love and attachment. The voice is very good but totally not suitable to the content. Intimate relationships are discussed and the voice sounds like from a war saga. I mean it is a really good voice, very clearly pronouncing etc and it would be perfect for motivational, war, action or even business books. But constant active 'calling to a war' tone is absolutely not suitable for a book discussing intimacy and romance. The voice does not match the book's 'atmosphere' to the point where it becomes annoying and even triggering. I must switch it off even though I would really like to keep listening.
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