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  • Hello! This is the Aware and Prepared podcast. I'm your host, Mandi Pratt, a trained domestic violence advocate. I teach women and vulnerable populations how to be street smart. I'm a mom with a gnarly backstory from almost two decades ago. The FBI showed up at my door one day to alert me that my abusive ex had become wanted for multiple bank robberies. Our story was in the news (a few times). I was tired of feeling vulnerable and learned how to keep myself and my son safer.I wish when I was a young woman I'd known about red flags to watch for in relationships, and had learned how to be street smart.This podcast is for 15-year-old me and is meant for families and community groups to listen to together. After all, women's safety is a community issue.I'll share with you stories like mine and interview detectives, psychologists and many other experts to NOT only hear their jaw-dropping stories, but also what we learn from them to prevent harm for our every youth and grown up listening.I don't want anyone else to have to go through what I did - scared, vulnerable and needing decades of counseling and healthcare to heal. I want you to feel safer with less fear and more power!
    You can find more from me at my website or my Instagram:
    WEB: https://womenawareandprepared.com/podcast/
    IG: https://www.instagram.com/womenawareandprepared/

    © 2024 Aware And Prepared
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  • Announcement: Less Lethal Self-Defense Class Coming in January
    Dec 16 2024

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    3 Min.
  • Mindfulness for Managing Emotional Triggers, Even When Co-Parenting with a Narcissist – Dr. Dorian
    Dec 9 2024

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    Master The Art of NOT “Biting The Hook” with Dr. Marina Dorian, a psychologist and meditation instructor. She shares wisdom from her personal journey of co-parenting with a narcissist. Building on last week’s conversation about her challenges, Dr. Dorian dives into practical mindfulness strategies to help anyone avoid being emotionally "hooked" by others' triggering behaviors.

    She shares about our tendency to get attached or triggered—and provides actionable steps to recognize and interrupt emotional reactivity. Whether you're dealing with difficult co-parenting dynamics or simply navigating daily stressors, her advice is universally valuable.

    Dr. Dorian also explores the power of self-compassion and loving-kindness meditation as tools for grounding and emotional resilience. Listeners will learn how to redirect their energy and cultivate inner peace amidst external chaos!


    LESSONS LEARNED

    Mindfulness can help you stay grounded. Simple practices like focused breathing and observing emotions without judgment can reduce stress and help you respond thoughtfully to difficult situations.

    Learning to protect your energy is essential, especially in challenging co-parenting dynamics.

    Recognizing and addressing your emotional responses can lead to greater self-awareness and resilience.

    You don’t have to engage in every conflict. Choosing when and how to respond can give you control over your emotional energy.

    Focus on what you can control: Shifting your attention from the narcissist’s behavior to your own actions empowers you to navigate co-parenting with less frustration.

    RESOURCES

    Commonly recommended resources for dealing with narcissistic relationships and co-parenting include:

    Books:

    "The Parallel Parenting Solution" by Carl Knickerbocker

    "Will I Ever Be Free of You?" by Karyl McBride

    "Co-Parenting With a Toxic Ex" by Amy J.L. Baker and Paul R. Fine

    Websites and Support Groups:

    One Mom’s Battle website and IG: Navigating family court with a narcissistic ex

    Narcissistic Abuse Support: website with articles, forums, and recovery tips

    Therapists and Legal Experts:

    Seek a therapist (contact Dr. Dorian) and / or lawyer specialized in narcissistic abuse

    Apps:

    OurFamilyWizard or Talking Parents: Communication tools designed to keep co-parenting interactions business-like and on record

    Dr. Marina Dorian Instagram


    JOIN Mandi’s weekly email list so you are notified of new podcast episodes and helpful resources! Sign up at awareandprepared.life at the bottom of her website.


    Reach Mandi through her website AwareAndPrepared.Life or Instagram @WomenAwareAndPrepared

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    31 Min.
  • Recovering From Narcissistic Abuse and Complex PTSD: Dr. Dorian’s Story and Advice
    Dec 2 2024

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    What happens when the person you most trusted turns out to be the source of your deepest pain? Hear Dr. Marina Dorian, a psychologist and mindfulness-based counseling professor share her powerful journey of reclaiming her life from narcissistic abuse. She unveils the psychological and physical toll of living with and co-parenting alongside a narcissist, offering a profound exploration of manipulation, gaslighting, and coercive communication.


    What are the different types of narcissists, the signs of abuse, and its complex impact on survivors? Learn invaluable tools for healing!


    LESSONS LEARNED


    Recognizing Manipulation: Understand the subtle tactics of narcissistic manipulation and how they erode self-trust and independence.


    The Power of Awareness: Awareness is the first step to breaking free from unhealthy dynamics.


    Reclaiming Self-Worth: Healing begins with realizing your inherent value and setting boundaries to protect it.


    Healing Is a Process: Recovery from abuse takes time, patience, and self-compassion, but it’s possible.


    Building self-awareness and emotional resilience helps in recognizing and preventing future toxic relationships.


    Parallel Parenting Over Co-Parenting: Minimize conflict by maintaining clear boundaries and limiting direct interaction. Focus on your child’s well-being without engaging in the narcissist’s manipulations.


    RESOURCES

    Commonly recommended resources for dealing with narcissistic relationships and co-parenting include:

    1. Books:
      • "The Parallel Parenting Solution" by Carl Knickerbocker
      • "Will I Ever Be Free of You?" by Karyl McBride
      • "Co-Parenting With a Toxic Ex" by Amy J.L. Baker and Paul R. Fine
    2. Websites and Support Groups:
      • One Mom’s Battle website and IG: Navigating family court with a narcissistic ex
      • Narcissistic Abuse Support: website with articles, forums, and recovery tips
    3. Therapists and Legal Experts: Seek a therapist and / or lawyer specialized in narcissistic abuse
    4. Apps: OurFamilyWizard or Talking Parents: Communication tools designed to keep co-parenting interactions business-like and on record

    Dr. Marina Dorian Instagram


    JOIN Mandi’s email list so you are notified of when her self defense course is live again and for workshop info. Sign up at awareandprepared.life at the bottom of the website.


    Reach Mandi through her website AwareAndPrepared.Life or Instagram @WomenAwareAndPrepared

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    38 Min.

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