Sometimes, the hardest decisions in life are the ones that set us free.

In this intimate episode, I am joined by Luci Lampe. Luci is a trauma-informed sex and relationship coach, a mother of four, an award-winning singer-songwriter, actress, model, and author.

Both Luci and I went through a breakup this year; in Luci’s case, after a 17 year marriage. In our conversation, we dive into the raw, real and beautiful process of letting go with love, and rebuilding our lives after personal upheaval.

We explore how to find clarity amidst chaos, how to honor your true self, and what it means to lovingly let go of relationships and life situations that no longer serve you.

Enjoy!! Oliver

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Content Pillars:

• Self Mastery
• Relationships & Integrity
• Spiritual Growth & Awakening
• Personal Empowerment
• Divorce
• Conscious Uncoupling

Time Stamps:

• [00:01] Welcome & Introduction to Lucy Lampe
• [01:03] Lucy’s Personal Story: Overcoming Challenges in Love & Life
• [05:10] Lessons from a 17-Year Marriage
• [10:07] How to Survive & Thrive After Major Life Changes
• [14:10] Trusting the Process: Moving Through Fear
• [20:00] Open Relationships: Learning What is True for You
• [30:20] The Power of Letting Go: How to Know When It’s Time
• [43:00] Practical Tips for Staying Grounded and Radiant

In this episode, I challenge the common assumption of what it means to be a leader, and make an uncomfortable proposal:

Most leaders are not actually leading.

This episode explores what real leadership looks like, and how to cultivate the qualities that make a true leader.

Enjoy!!

Peace, Power.

Oliver

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Chapters

00:00 What is Leadership

03:55 The Masculine Polarity in Leadership

08:35 The Esteem Trap

13:45 Thought Leadership - are you really Leading?

18:20 Leading Your Business through Challenges

24:05 Actionable Steps to cultivate Leadership Qualities

Key Highlights:

• What is Leadership?: Unpacking the true definition of leadership as guiding others into new territories, rather than just following trends or managing external surroundings.
• Polarity of Leadership: The relationship between masculine energy, electricity, and the act of leading. How penetrating a space with clarity and conviction is a key trait of leadership.
• Thought Leadership: A critical look at how many thought leaders fail to lead with new, edgy perspectives, instead regurgitating information.
• Examples Across Fields: From business to politics to spirituality, I propose that true leadership is rare and discuss how to cultivate it.

Action Steps:

• Journaling Prompt: Reflect on where you are truly leading people. Examine the evidence from past experiences and decide how you can lead with more boldness and clarity.
• Lead with Surplus Energy: Explore how personal leadership requires a surplus of energy, grounding in your own expertise before guiding others.

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• Private Mentorship: If you are ready to step into deeper leadership, apply for Oliver’s private mentorship, designed for business leaders, spiritual guides, and creators who are ready to lead with confidence and conviction.
• Pure Power Breathwork Ceremony: Reset your energy and clear any blocks in your leadership path by joining the next breathwork session.

I propose that most people in modern society are trapped in an “esteem circus”: a constant loop of trying to perform in order to receive validation, to shore up low self-esteem.

In this episode, I discuss the concept of real esteem and how it differs from the esteem circus that is prevalent in our society.

Real esteem is characterized by solidity, reliability, and a natural happiness that radiates from within. It is not based on external validation or material possessions.

Cultivating real esteem involves clearing out repressed pain and filling oneself up with one's own energy. We must face our worthlessness and dig through the layers of pain, in order to recognize our true nature and find deeper solidity.

Enjoy,

Peace, Power.

Oliver

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Apply for Private Mentorship.

Sign up for the next Pure Power Activation.

Receive the Journaling Practice for Clearing out Subconscious Blocks.

Chapters

00:00

The Esteem Circus

02:01

Hallmarks of Real Esteem

05:23

Real Esteem and Success

09:18

Cultivating Real Esteem

15:44

Flushing Out and Filling Up

19:46

Facing Worthlessness and Recognizing True Nature

24:19

Committing to the Inner Work

Takeaways

• Real esteem is characterized by solidity, reliability, and a natural happiness that radiates from within.
• Cultivating real esteem involves clearing out repressed pain and filling oneself up with one's own energy.
• Facing our worthlessness and recognizing our true nature is essential in cultivating authentic esteem.
• Committing to the inner work of cultivating authentic esteem is a transformative process that requires time and dedication.

Keywords

esteem, real esteem, authenticity, self-recognition, self-worth, self-acceptance, self-love, inner work, pain, consciousness, transformation