• Compassion For My Face: HMA Psychodrama Example
    Jan 16 2025

    In this live demo, Doug Carpenter guides Rick Carlson in healing childhood trauma through psychodrama. This episode is an example of Work It Out Wednesday, one of the weekly HMA Coaching Calls. Learn more and join HMA this weekend at joinHMA.com.

    Related episodes:

    • Experience Healing Through Psychodrama
    • A Story Of Healing Through Psychodrama


    Dr. Doug Carpenter is a clinical psychologist and founding board member of Husband Material Ministries. Learn more at douglascarpenter.com

    Rick Carlson is a recovery pastor and Certified Husband Material Coach. Learn more at comebackcoaching.org

    Drew Boa, Mike Chapman, James Gianakon, and Marcus Spaur played supporting roles in Rick's process.


    Take the Husband Material Journey...

    • Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube
    • Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
    • Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
    • Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

    Thanks for listening!

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    1 Std. und 7 Min.
  • Understanding External & Internal Family Systems To Outgrow Porn
    Jan 13 2025

    Learn how external & internal family systems have shaped your sexuality—and what's happening inside you when you feel the pull of pornography. This episode was recorded at "HMA In A Day" as a preview of the Husband Material Academy video course.

    Watch the video here.


    Take the Husband Material Journey...

    • Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube
    • Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
    • Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
    • Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

    Thanks for listening!

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    40 Min.
  • The Guy In The Locker Room: HMA Fantasy Friday Example
    Jan 9 2025

    In this episode, Drew Boa helps Jordan Castille process a sexual fantasy about a guy in a locker room. This is a demonstration of Fantasy Friday, one of the weekly HMA Coaching Calls. Learn more and join HMA this week at joinHMA.com.

    Drew Boa is the founder of Husband Material. He is a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional, Inner Child Recovery Specialist, Brainspotting Practitioner, and Certified Husband Material Coach.

    Jordan Castille is a Board Certified Christian Counselor, Certified Clinical Sex Addiction Specialist, APSATS CPC (Certified Partner Coach) Candidate, and Certified Husband Material Coach. Learn more at castillecoaching.com


    Take the Husband Material Journey...

    • Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube
    • Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
    • Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
    • Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

    Thanks for listening!

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    44 Min.
  • How To Face Your Sexual Fantasies: Arousal vs. Desire
    Jan 6 2025

    Learn how to face your sexual fantasies and process the particularity of what sexually arouses you. This episode was recorded at "HMA In A Day" as a preview of the Husband Material Academy video course.

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    Take the Husband Material Journey...

    • Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube
    • Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
    • Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
    • Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

    Thanks for listening!

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    42 Min.
  • New Stats On Porn Use Among Christians (with Nick Stumbo)
    Dec 30 2024

    75% of Christian men and 40% of Christian women watch porn on a regular basis, but only 21% wish they didn't. Nick Stumbo shares these stats and other major findings of Beyond The Porn Phenomenon, a new research report produced by Barna and Pure Desire Ministries.

    Nick Stumbo is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries and host of the Pure Desire Podcast. He's also the author of Setting Us Free: An Unexpected Journey Of Grace and Safe: Creating A Culture Of Grace In A Climate Of Shame. Learn more at puredesire.org

    Order Beyond The Porn Phenomenon

    Get the Church Toolkit (free bonus)

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    You're invited to The Porn Free Man Online Conference!
    When: Friday, January 10 and Saturday, January 11, 2025
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    Take the Husband Material Journey...

    • Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube
    • Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
    • Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
    • Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

    Thanks for listening!

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    35 Min.
  • Make Sense Of Your Sexual Story (with Adam Young)
    Dec 23 2024

    You have a story. Your sexuality has a story. Adam Young explains why and how to engage your sexual story: desires and disappointments, arousal, emotions, shame, abuse, and your war with hope. Adam also gives us a preview of the workshop he will lead at The Porn Free Man Conference on "Engaging God About Your Story." This episode is incredible!

    Adam Young is a therapist who focuses on trauma and abuse, and the host of The Place We Find Ourselves podcast. Adam is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with a Master's degree in Social Work (Virginia Commonwealth University) and Divinity (Emory University). Adam is the author of Make Sense of Your Story: Why Engaging Your Story with Kindness Changes Everything. He currently serves as a Fellow and Instructor at The Allender Center. Adam lives in Fort Collins, CO, with his wife and two children.

    Buy Adam's new book here:
    Make Sense Of Your Story: Why Engaging Your Past with Kindness Changes Everything (this is a paid link)

    Learn more at adamyoungcounseling.com

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    When: Friday, January 10 and Saturday, January 11, 2025
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    Take the Husband Material Journey...

    • Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube
    • Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
    • Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
    • Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

    Thanks for listening!

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    40 Min.
  • Recovering From Purity Culture (with Dr. Camden Morgante)
    Dec 16 2024

    Why is purity culture harmful, and how can we heal from it? Dr. Camden Morgante explains what purity culture is, where it came from, and how to let go of toxic beliefs without letting go of your faith. Stay until the end to hear Dr. Camden's beautiful meditation on healing from sexual shame.

    Dr. Camden Morgante is a licensed clinical psychologist, writer, speaker, and coach. Dr. Camden combines her personal experience growing up in purity culture with her professional experience in mind-body integration to help her clients and readers heal their faith from toxic beliefs. Learn more at DrCamden.com.

    Buy Dr. Camden's book (this is a paid link):

    Recovering from Purity Culture: Dismantle the Myths, Reject Shame-Based Sexuality, and Move Forward in Your Faith


    Related episodes:

    • Five Failures Of Purity Culture
    • Outgrowing Porn vs. Purity Culture
    • What Does The Bible Say About Purity?
    • How To Make Sex Great (with Sheila Wray Gregoire)

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    You're invited to The Porn Free Man Online Conference!
    When: Friday, January 10 and Saturday, January 11, 2025
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    Take the Husband Material Journey...

    • Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube
    • Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
    • Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
    • Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

    Thanks for listening!

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    29 Min.
  • How To Stop Hiding And Lying
    Dec 9 2024

    Why do we hide and lie? How can we stop? This episode will help you feel safe enough to tell the truth—or at least a little safer. I'll lead you in an experiential exercise, similar to what I facilitate in Husband Material Academy and private coaching sessions. Warning: this will be very deep...

    Resources mentioned in this episode:

    • How To Tell Her About The Porn: Full Disclosure (podcast)
    • The 6 Fs: A Process To Jumpstart Healing (free PDF)
    • Certified Husband Material Coaches (directory)

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    You're invited to The Porn Free Man Online Conference!
    When: Friday, January 10 and Saturday, January 11, 2025
    Get your free ticket now at thepornfreeman.com

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    Take the Husband Material Journey...

    • Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube
    • Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
    • Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
    • Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

    Thanks for listening!

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    29 Min.