Are You Divorcing a Narcissist with Tracy Malone

In this episode of the Her Empowered Divorce Expert Series podcast, Beverly Price interviews Tracy Malone and we talk about Are You Divorcing a Narcissist. Top mistakes people make in divorcing a narcissist, how to protect yourself from post-divorce legal and financial abuse

Tracy Malone Author of 'DIVORCING YOUR NARCISSIST: You Can't Make This Shit Up! Tracy is a divorce coach specializing in narcissistic abuse divorces. The Founder of NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Tracy coaches’ clients from all over the world. You can listen to her podcast or visit her on YouTube.

Tracy Malone Author, Speaker, Educator, and International narcissistic abuse divorce coach. She is a surTHRIVER of abuse herself and the founder of NarcissistAbuseSupport.com. Tracy Bestselling book – DIVORCING A NARCISSIST: You Can’t Make This Shit Up! as well as 32 healing journals. Tracy has a popular YouTube channel and podcast that has reached millions of survivors.

Key Interview Questions that Beverly Asks Tracy:

1.           How are narcissists different in a divorce process?

2.         In your book you mention rich and poor narcissists - why does that matter in a narcissistic divorce? 3

3.        What are some of the tactics a narcissist will deploy during a divorce

4.        What are the biggest mistakes people make when divorcing a narcissist in your book you talk about the grey areas of a divorce decree - can you tell us about that?

5.        What 3 actionable takeaways can you give women that they can do to enhance their journey from beginning to end and recovery from the divorce process

a.  don't underestimate the black and white thinking where you become the evil one,

b.  they must destroy understand the reason it’s important to understand the tactics understand the biggest mistakes

c.    how to protect yourself from post-divorce legal and financial abuse

ABOUT TRACY MALONE:

Tracy Malone  Are You Divorcing a Narcissist

CONNECT WITH TRACY MALONE –

What are your website address and social media handles: https://narcissistabusesupport.com Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/188681268196044/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tracyamalone/ Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/tracyamalone/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/TracyAMalone Podcasts - 

What are the biggest divorce mistakes to avoid? With Susan Guthrie, Esq. Host of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast.

Key Interview Questions:

1. Which role of mediator, litigator or podcast host do you like the most?

2. What mistakes in divorce do you see most often?

3.  Who is first professional you should hire?

4. How can you come up with a plan for moving forward?

5. What did you learn from your divorce that you incorporate in life today?

What 3 actionable takeaways can you give women that they can do to enhance their journey from beginning to end and recovery from the divorce process

1.    Don’t rush into the process and go to fast. Give yourself grace of space

2.    Form a divorce team – coach, financial professional and litigator

3.    Create a vision for a new life from a blank slate – looking forward, not looking back

ABOUT SUSAN GUTHRIE, Esq.:

Nationally recognized family law attorney, mediator, and Leading Online Mediation Expert, Susan Guthrie® is at it again. After guiding countless numbers of people through the perilous world of divorce—and speaking to a podcast audience of over 4 million listeners—she’s bringing you the The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast with her own insider knowledge and information from some of the top experts in the world

CONNECT WITH SUSAN GUTHRIE -

·      Website - Divorceandbeyondpod.com

·      Instagram: @susanguthrieesq and @divorceandbeyond

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About your Host, Beverly Price:

Beverly Price, the driving force behind Her Empowered Divorce, has a profound personal connection to the divorce journey, having navigated it herself from the inside out. She intimately understands the spectrum of emotions such as pain, anger, overwhelm, and confusion that accompany divorce, drawing from her own experiences. Her unwavering passion lies in empowering women to navigate divorce in a more positive and informed manner than she did in her own past.

Over many years of dedicated coaching, Beverly has provided invaluable support to...

HOW TO PREPARE FOR A DIVORCE

HOST: Beverly Price, Divorce & Empowerment Coach

GUEST: Lisa Zeiderman, Matrimonial Attorney, CFL, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst

SUMMARY:

Preparing for a divorce is a complex and emotionally challenging process that involves multiple facets, from the legal aspects to the emotional well-being of those involved. Understanding how to prepare for it and getting the right people on your team is key to better results. Seeking out an experienced divorce attorney, therapist, divorce coach, and divorce financial analyst as needed to help at different times with different issues can make the journey smoother. Each divorce is unique, so tailoring your preparation to your specific situation is key to achieving the best possible results. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, your Host, Beverly Price, talks to Lisa Zeiderman, a matrimonial attorney, CFL, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, and Managing Partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP, based in New York. Together, they discuss preparations for divorce, the steps you need to take to get the best results, and the professional you need in your divorce team to help you navigate the complexities of divorce, make informed decisions, and work towards a more positive future.

KEY TAKEAWAYS:

·      If you are thinking about divorce, you should first sit down and create a spreadsheet of assets, liabilities, and expenses and gather documents such as tax returns, brokerage statements, bank statements, and credit card statements for backup when you consult an attorney.

·      Word of mouth and support group recommendations can help you find a good match for your divorce process. You can also get a good match from bar associations, ABA sites, super lawyers sites, LinkedIn, and podcasts.

·      What should I look for in an attorney, and what questions to ask? Look for an attorney who is listening, understands your situation, and has experience doing the kind of work needed in your case. They need to click, and if you feel like you are in a hustle and have a genuine difference in opinion during the consultation, they might not be a good fit.

·      How can I be the best client for my attorney? The first thing is to be truthful, detailed, timely, and realistic with your expectations. Divorce is like a second job; being truthful, transparent, timely, and realistic will help you get the best results and build a relationship with your attorney.

NOTABLE QUOTES:

·      Overwhelm is how people feel in a divorce, and sometimes attorneys may overlook the fact that you are not used to the terminologies and what is going on. Having a divorce team is crucial because you can ask the divorce coach, therapist, or financial analyst questions to help you understand what's happening. (Lisa)

·      The number one mistake you can make in a divorce is letting your emotions hijack you, so you lose the ability to think clearly and make good decisions. Unless you work through that, your attorney can't be as effective because you are not fulfilling the role of being an educated and informed client. (Beverly)

·      Being truthful is very important; you do not want your attorney to be blindsided or go to court and find out something different from what you are saying because they will look foolish in front of the judge. Make sure you are an accurate recorder. (Lisa)

·      There are so many limitations for settlement, so don't set your standards so high that it's impossible to meet; you need to understand that there is an income that is less to go around, and you