In this episode of Beauty Unveiled, Dr. Angela Sturm is joined by psychotherapist and sex and relationship expert Mary Jo Rapini to explore how plastic surgery intersects with emotional health, partnership, and self worth. Together they unpack what really happens inside relationships when one partner chooses to change their appearance, from subtle insecurity to open sabotage. Mary Jo explains why true support begins long before the operating room and how couples can prepare emotionally for the changes that follow surgery or major weight loss. Listeners gain a clear framework for recognizing healthy support, addressing resentment, and using aesthetic decisions as a catalyst for growth rather than conflict.

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Key Takeaways

1. Lasting relationships thrive when each partner sees change as a personal commitment to growth and to the vibrance of the relationship, not as an obligation to fix the other person.​

2. Partner support significantly influences recovery after plastic surgery, affecting not only emotional resilience but also how patients experience swelling, bruising, and early doubts about their decision.​

3. When a partner resists or undermines aesthetic change, it often reflects their own insecurity, fear of losing connection, or unresolved shame about their body rather than a problem with the surgery itself.​

4. Addressing these dynamics in therapy can shift couples from competition and withdrawal toward mutual encouragement, healthier intimacy, and a shared commitment to each person’s well being.​

5. Choosing procedures from a place of self respect, rather than revenge or post breakup urgency, allows patients to bring more confidence, stability, and honesty into both new and existing relationships.

Timestamped Overview

03:00 How long term couples stay together by committing to personal growth instead of trying to change each other.​
06:00 The vulnerability of plastic surgery patients and the powerful impact of a partner’s response during early healing.​
08:15 Why some partners sabotage a loved one’s weight loss or aesthetic change and how insecurity drives that behavior.​
11:30 Using therapy to uncover hidden fears, shift power struggles, and rebuild support when one partner is changing physically.​
14:30 How men are socialized to avoid vulnerability, and why they often rely heavily on women for emotional processing.​
17:00 Unique dynamics between male patients and male surgeons versus male patients and female surgeons around fear and results.​
20:30 Why men are less likely to seek plastic surgery or psychotherapy and what finally motivates them to engage.​
24:00 Surge in plastic surgery after divorce or infidelity and why waiting until a breakup can limit support and deepen resentment.​
26:00 How tending to personal appearance and confidence within a relationship can prevent drift, blame, and unspoken frustration.​
31:00 The different emotional needs of men and women after surgery and why male patients may depend even more on partner reassurance.​
32:30 Mary Jo’s advice for partners to show up with calm, consistent support during cosmetic procedures and recovery.

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Have you ever wondered if the latest non-surgical treatments really deliver the results they promise? There are a lot of options out there, and sometimes the risks are not clear until it's too late.

Today, Dr. Sturm covers the following things you may not know about Ulthera:

-Why she doesn’t recommend it to her patients

-The potential impact it can have on future surgery

-The risks that may outweigh the benefits

Key Takeaways

1. Ulthera (ultherapy) is a non-surgical treatment, so patients should not expect the same results as with surgical procedures like facelifts. The technology is convenient in terms of downtime and price, but its results are more subtle and limited compared to surgery.

2. Having Ulthera can make future facelifts more challenging due to increased scarring and less distinct tissue planes. This is important for patients to consider if they might want surgical procedures in the future, as Ulthera can impact the quality and difficulty of those results.

3. Ulthera is not a painless procedure; it often causes discomfort, and while numbing can help, many providers do not offer this. Patients should weigh discomfort, results, and price together to determine if the treatment is worth it.

4. Results from Ulthera are highly variable—sometimes impressive, but often subtle or difficult to notice. The unpredictability makes it harder for providers to confidently recommend the procedure, as patient satisfaction can be inconsistent.

5. Complications from Ulthera can include unintended fat loss (especially if the device is used too aggressively) and even temporary or rare permanent nerve damage. These risks, combined with less predictable results, mean that Dr. Sturm generally does not recommend Ulthera and prefers newer, safer technologies.

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Money makes or breaks a med spa.

Christin Trujillo explains how Maven Financial helps medical and aesthetic practices manage financial decisions and benchmark performance. She covers compensation models, cost analysis, startup planning, and market trends. Dr. Angela Sturm reflects on financial guidance in practice management and the risks of selling without expert advice.

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Key Takeaways

1. Christin explains that a fractional CFO bridges the gap between basic financial partners (like bookkeepers and CPAs) and actionable, strategic financial management. They dive deep into practice operations, help increase revenue, optimize profitability, and provide actionable benchmarks, enabling owners to make informed, growth-oriented decisions.

2. Both Christin and Dr. Sturm emphasize the value of using industry benchmarks for expenses, payroll, and compensation. Understanding these numbers helps practices remain competitive, profitable, and fair, especially amid the confusion around various pay models (gross vs. net production). Having objective data allows owners to justify decisions and optimize staff compensation.

3. Practices approach Christin and her team at all stages—startup, growth, and exit. The central message is that no matter where a practice is in its lifecycle, being proactive and intentional with financial planning (like budgeting, forecasting, and strategy) is crucial to long-term success. Tracking and measuring finances is essential for growth and sustainability.

4. The med spa market is highly dynamic, with rapid expansion leading to greater competition and market saturation. Christin notes that only the most strategic, adaptable, and service-oriented practices thrive, as consumers now expect more than just "meeting expectations." The environment is shifting, and successful operators are those who innovate in marketing, customer service, and operational excellence.

5. There’s a growing trend of private equity and multi-location groups seeking to acquire med spas. Christin cautions owners to be diligent, not jump at the first offer, ensure their finances are in order, and consider consulting a broker to maximize value. The key lesson: selling a practice is a major financial decision that should be approached thoughtfully and strategically to avoid leaving significant money on the table.

Timestamped Overview

00:00 Optimizing Practice Revenue and Performance

05:29 Med Spa Business Metrics Insights

07:30 Simplifying Compensation and Finance

12:40 Provider Incentives and Patient Care

15:25 Strategic Planning for Business Growth

18:59 "Evaluating Business Finances Strategically"

21:11 Healthcare Shift: Providers Seeking Independence

23:30 "Thriving Through Exceptional Marketing"

26:39 "Med Spas: Growth and Consolidation"

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*This episode originally aired on April 2, 2024

Dr. Sturm welcomes Dr. Eric Hamill to the show.

During this conversation, they discuss the intricacies of the human visage, and the gentle touch necessary to deliver superior results for patients.

They delve into the delicate relationship between the brows and eyelids, understanding their collaborative impact on our expressions and the rejuvenation techniques that can accentuate their natural harmony. Learn about the meticulous approach these seasoned practitioners take in treating brow ptosis and their less invasive methods that symbolize the finesse of modern cosmetic care.

Hear personal stories from Dr. Hamill, an oculoplastic surgeon with a rich background and a passion for precision, who shares insights from his journey in medicine and the satisfaction derived from positively transforming patient lives.

Finally, appreciate the human aspect behind the practitioners as they discuss the delicate balance between professional commitments and family life, painting a picture of the dedication required in their field.

Turn up your earbuds, and see beauty through the lens of those who shape it with their hands and hearts.

Key Takeaways

1. Oculoplastic surgery focuses on eyelids and brows, addressing both functional and aesthetic concerns.

2. Training in oculoplastic surgery involves an ophthalmology residency followed by a fellowship in ophthalmic plastic and reconstructive surgery.

3. Choosing a niche within oculoplastic surgery allows surgeons to specialize and become experts in specific procedures.

4. Advancements in brow and eyelid surgery have led to techniques like brow repositioning, which provide more natural and rejuvenating results.

5. Balancing work and family life can be challenging, but having a supportive network and flexible schedule can help.

Timestamped Overview

01:11 Training and Specialization in Oculoplastic Surgery
03:09 Choosing a Niche in Oculoplastic Surgery
04:06 Different Routes to Becoming a Plastic Surgeon
05:06 The Focus of Oculoplastic Surgery
07:00 Practicing Medicine in the Hometown
07:58 Balancing Work and Family Life
08:56 Advancements in Brow and Eyelid Surgery
10:49 Changing Perspectives on Brow Lifts
11:43 The Interplay Between Eyelids and Brows
13:06 Repositioning the Brow for Rejuvenation
14:25 Customizing Surgical Approaches
16:10 Evolution of Brow Lift Techniques
18:26 Markings and Technique for Upper Blepharoplasty
19:20 Technical Nuances of Lower Blepharoplasty
20:48 Preserving Fat in Lower Blepharoplasty
23:11 Challenges with Filler in the Lower Lids
25:55 Advice for Aspiring Oculoplastic Surgeons

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Stories reshape careers.

Dr. Sturm interviews Dr. Jose Barrera, who shares his journey from immigration and a car accident to facial plastic surgery via the Air Force. Topics include jaw evolution, the meaning behind "ethnic rhinoplasty," global perspectives, and preservation rhinoplasty techniques. Collaboration and patient care take center stage.

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Key Takeaways

1. Dr. Barrera discusses his unconventional path into medicine and facial plastic surgery, influenced by a personal car accident, his immigrant background, and initial interest in research. His journey emphasizes that non-traditional backgrounds and life experiences can deeply shape and enrich medical careers.

2. There’s an in-depth conversation between Dr. Sturm and Dr. Barrera about how diet, intermarriage, and cultural blending have shifted beauty standards and the physical features people desire or present today. The main takeaway is that beauty is neither static nor universally defined; rather, it’s continually reshaped by genetics, culture, and societal trends.

3. They examine the terminology used in rhinoplasty, particularly the term “ethnic rhinoplasty.” They agree that such broad terms often “other-ize” non-Caucasian patients and can obscure important differences within ethnic groups. The key takeaway is the importance of using more inclusive, precise, and culturally aware language in plastic surgery to better respect and serve diverse patient populations.

4. Dr. Barrera shares his adoption and innovation in preservation rhinoplasty, highlighting the importance of continual learning, hands-on skill development, and evidence-based practice. The core idea is that embracing new surgical techniques—and thoroughly testing them before broad application—leads to better patient outcomes and advances the field.

5. Both Dr. Sturm and Dr. Barrera talk about the value of mentorship, collaboration, and networking within the field, from supporting each other’s practice growth to sharing resources and learning from leaders. The takeaway is the power of professional relationships in personal growth, navigating challenges, and elevating standards of care for patients.

Timestamped Overview

00:00 "Life-Changing Accident and Journey"

03:33 "Flight Doc Adventures in Asia"

09:18 "Global Similarities in Beauty Ideals"

10:08 "Diversity in Rhinoplasty Norms"

13:19 "Diversity in Rhinoplasty Standards"

19:13 "Influences and Advancing Surgical Techniques"

20:48 "Surgical Expertise and Experience"

23:25 "Surgical Center Relocation Plans"

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Success rarely looks like a straight line.

Mavi Rodriguez joins Dr. Angela Sturm to discuss her transition from patient coordinator to the host of Big Butts No Lies and creator of Bruise Juice. Time blocking helps her balance roles as a mom and entrepreneur. She helps patients choose surgeons, explains industry differences, and guides them through recovery.

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Key Takeaways

1. Mavi highlights the importance of patient advocacy, helping mostly women understand the complexities of plastic surgery—from choosing the right surgeon and understanding pricing differences, to supporting them during the recovery process. Her approach is about empowering patients with information and a support system, ensuring safety and successful outcomes.

2. Mavi discusses her path from medical assistant and patient coordinator, to launching her own podcast and product line. She openly shares her struggles with imposter syndrome, but reveals that her patient-side perspective became her unique strength. Persistence, curiosity, and grit are emphasized as essential qualities for carving out a new path and making an impact.

3. A significant portion of the conversation centers around educating patients about the differences between cosmetic surgeons and board-certified plastic surgeons. Mavi stresses the need for thorough research, not just relying on social media or a single consultation, and being alert to red flags. Making informed choices can mean the difference between a positive transformation and a problematic or even dangerous outcome.

4. Dr. Sturm and Mavi explore how social media often distorts the realities of plastic surgery, with photoshopped images and misleading presentations of results. They emphasize the need for patients to look beyond the curated images, to healed and long-term results, and not let filtered content set unrealistic expectations.

5. Mavi provides emotional support, acting as a “surgery bestie” for her clients, holding their hand from consultation, through recovery, to their post-op transformation. The conversation underscores the priceless value of having someone knowledgeable to reassure, guide, and advocate for patients—an element often missing from traditional medical care.

Timestamped Overview

00:00 "Journey from Assistant to Innovator"

05:51 "Developing a Better Recovery Solution"

07:20 "Creating a Unique Podcast"

12:25 Choosing the Right Surgeon

13:39 "Choosing the Right Surgeon"

18:59 Predatory Practices in Cosmetic Surgery

21:56 Patient Guidance and Realistic Expectations

23:25 Surgery Preparation and Support Process

26:28 "Feeling Good, Looking Amazing"

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In the season three finale of Beauty Unveiled, Dr. Angela Sturm reflects on the year’s conversations about surgery, recovery and self-image, while thanking listeners for their support. She recaps themes like support systems, embracing the recovery process and using surgical and non-surgical options to align appearance with how patients feel, then previews expert guests and deeper dives coming in 2026 and invites listeners to subscribe, share and stay connected.

Key takeaways

1. A strong support system is crucial for a smoother, more positive surgical recovery.

2. Recovery is a gradual process, and accepting that helps manage expectations and emotions.

3. Aesthetic procedures can be a form of self-care and empowerment that lets people rewrite their story.

4. Non-surgical treatments like injectables, microneedling, lasers and medical-grade skincare can significantly improve skin quality and perceived age.

5. The next season will feature expert guests, deeper education on rhinoplasty and recovery, and encourages listeners to stay engaged and suggest topics or guests.

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Dr. Sturm is joined by entrepreneur and Beauty Unveiled producer Freddy Cruz, who traded a career in radio for the leap into business after hundreds of job rejections. Both reveal how stepping away from established institutions in pursuit of new ventures requires vision and resilience. Their conversation shares insights about embracing risk and finding fulfillment in entrepreneurship, whether transforming patients’ lives in surgery or building a brand from scratch.

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Key Takeaways

1. Both Dr. Sturm and Freddy share their transitions from structured employment to entrepreneurship, highlighting the uncertainty and risks of going out on your own. A clear vision and commitment with “no plan B” stand out as vital for success.

2. Professional relationships and a solid reputation provide support and continuity when leaving established systems. Freddy’s first clients came from former connections, and Dr. Sturm’s loyal patients followed her into her private practice. Authenticity and rapport remain crucial across careers.

3. A willingness to learn—drawing from podcasts, mentors, and thought leaders—is emphasized over raw skill. Both value being coachable and recognize that sometimes a new perspective delivers a breakthrough realization.

4. Balancing business and family life is a recurring challenge. Dr. Sturm reflects on working with her significant other, the need for clear boundaries, and assigning roles based on strengths to maintain harmony both at work and at home.

5. Dr. Sturm explains why many physicians become entrepreneurs, citing inadequate business education and the burnout of traditional systems. She discusses building a practice with scalable processes for long-term value and fulfillment.

Timestamped Overview

00:00 Entrepreneurship and Resilience Insight

05:18 Growth Through Podcasts & Learning

07:16 Embrace Tasks with Positivity

13:54 Embracing Growth Through Struggles

18:24 Focus on Strengths, Not Paperwork

22:04 Embracing Failure in Your 20s

23:47 Finding Purpose Through Uncertainty

28:06 Residency Commitment Through Generations

32:04 Medical Practice Value Challenges

35:36 Advocating for Self & Others

38:13 Residency Shift Work Struggles

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